Maverick and Company

On November 1, 2004, exactly 5 years and 5 days ago, I did a terrible, stupid, beautiful thing.

I started my own company.

I didn’t really know what I was doing. I didn’t have a plan or a marketing strategy for finding new clients. I didn’t have a mentor to show me what to do or a coach to help me get it done. I didn’t have enough cash reserves for tough times. I didn’t really even know how to explain what I did.

I would not recommend starting a company the way I started mine.

Deciding to work for yourself is a foolish, foolish thing to do. Your company is a version of you, your mistakes, your immaturity, your impulsiveness. Everything you wish were different about you will become an exponentially bigger problem inside your business. It will, often, be uncomfortable even when it’s going really well.

So you see, it was a terrible, stupid thing to start my own business.

In fact, it still is.

WHAT I LEARNED FROM MAVERICK

But as I stop to look back on these past five years and five days since I became the Maverick of MAVERICK & COMPANY, I still love the terrible, stupid beautiful mess I’ve gotten myself into. Because just as your business will show you all your faults, it will also show you where to grow. If you’ll let it, your business will help you fill in the gaps of who you are as a human being. If you let it, your business will turn you into a better person, a bigger person.

In that spirit, here are 5 things MAVERICK has taught me in the past 5 years and 5 days:

• THE RAIN ALWAYS COMES—No matter how bad it is, it will always get better. Even in the dessert, even if it takes 100 years, the rain ALWAYS comes. Your job in life is to remember that, store some water and hang in there.

• GO TO THE ZOO—I’ve learned I can’t force life to go the way I want. Often, the harder I push, the harder things become. I get more tense, less happy and opportunities dry up. In these instances, I got o the zoo to see the gorilla babies. They romp and play and tease the big male gorillas (also a terrible, beautiful, stupid thing to do.) And something about watching them, brings me back to me. When it isn’t working, stop working, go play.

• GROW YOUR OWN CONFIDENCE—Many people get their confidence from their results. Doing it that way severely limits the amount of good you can do in the world. Your confidence level is critical to your effectiveness. You need to know how to grow your own, protect it and restore it, whether or not your have the results RIGHT NOW.

• EVERYBODY’S AN IDIOT—I’ve now worked with thousands of people and hundreds of groups. What I’ve noticed is that everybody is an idiot. Almost nobody does all the stuff they should. Everybody could be doing it better. They’re all imperfect and it mostly works out anyway. Everybody’s an idiot, including me, and we still manage to run great companies, raise great families and make a difference in the world. MAVERICK taught me that being an idiot is the beginning, not the end.

• I’M AWESOME—I sort of knew this before but working for myself, the way I’ve dealt with the hard times, the stuff I’ve built and the sense of humor I’ve (mostly) maintained prove to me that I am, in fact, awesome. And if that didn’t do it, the fan mail, the fan emails, the grateful phone calls, the tears of recognition and the way I see faith come back to the faces in the audience…THOSE things tell me that I am (mostly) being the person I said I would be. Knowing THAT is, as they say, priceless. I am awesome and awesomely blessed.

It’s not just beautiful, it’s a true miracle, a divine event to be able to do something you love, give the gift you’ve been given to give, and pay your bills all at the same time. The very best parts of my life are coming up with new ideas and hearing how people use them to have more of what they want and these are things I get to do ALMOST EVERY SINGLE DAY.

I don’t know what will happen in the next 5 years and 5 days…I’ve at least learned not to guess or try to predict. But I can say that if the next 5 & 5 went half as well, if I was half as blessed, if I got to make half the difference I have so far…that would work for me.

Here’s to this terrible, stupid, beautiful dream of mine that came true and here’s to YOURS.

Thank you,

Alecia

Tags: alecia, business, entrepreneur, MAVERICK

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